- Always have confidence and say hello WITH eye contact and a smile. Women are always having guys come on to them (unless they are 300 pounds), so don't come on too strongly.
- Your attention should always be on something else. Women want to be pursued, but they also ONLY respond to the guys who seem a little harder to get. Let the other guys continually come on to her, you just focus on the conversation with other guys, or talk to her ugly friend.
- Instead of asking her to go back to your place, ask if she would like to go for a walk and have a conversation. This works. It gives them time to see you aren't a jerk.
I always "close the deal" within the first three or four dates. Women who have been in long-term relationships usually take about 4 dates. Women who date a lot will give it up in 3 dates or less. Alcohol isn't important, but it can help. I fell into a pattern in my dating very quickly.
I would meet a girl for lunch and have a good conversation. Then we would see a movie, go to the motorcycle show, or just do something fun. I even once took a very intellectual girl to the university museum. On the second or third date, I will start making out with her. Kissing is mandatory on the second date, but I try to get things going sexually as quickly as possible. Almost always, they put me off and I act like it's okay to wait.
On date 3 or 4, we'll get into a situation where we're having fun, laughing, chilling out watching a movie at her place or mine. I'll start kissing her and then say something like, "You know I really like you, but I know I'm more of a friend to you than anything more. I don't mind if the relationship is only G-rated."
That comment will surprise them. They won't know what to think about it. They are still dating me so where should things go? If they just want to be friends, why are we kissing and making out?
If that doesn't throw them enough, I say, "I don't have a big ego. I know you've probably dated better guys than me, but I love hanging out with you. Were you thinking we wouldn't be good together?"
After that comment, I usually get them back to the bed about 80% of the time. I was dating this girl named Lisa who wasn't ready for sex with me, but she panicked at the idea that we would only be friends and she really wanted a relationship. It was weird in bed but after about fifteen minutes of different positions and touching her all over during sex, she was convinced she made the right decision. It's a lot like sales, you have to tell them what to do, then reassure them they made the right decision.
Be confident, don't come on too strong. Ask for dates. You really don't want the skanks that fuck on the first date. Don't go buying anything from a pick-up artist to teach you how to date. Just keep asking girls out and trying things. Be positive, take rejection with a smile, and ask if they have friends who might want to date "a loser like me". Trash talking yourself works too. Remember, the goal is to score as often as possible with a wide variety of women.
I would meet a girl for lunch and have a good conversation. Then we would see a movie, go to the motorcycle show, or just do something fun. I even once took a very intellectual girl to the university museum. On the second or third date, I will start making out with her. Kissing is mandatory on the second date, but I try to get things going sexually as quickly as possible. Almost always, they put me off and I act like it's okay to wait.
On date 3 or 4, we'll get into a situation where we're having fun, laughing, chilling out watching a movie at her place or mine. I'll start kissing her and then say something like, "You know I really like you, but I know I'm more of a friend to you than anything more. I don't mind if the relationship is only G-rated."
That comment will surprise them. They won't know what to think about it. They are still dating me so where should things go? If they just want to be friends, why are we kissing and making out?
If that doesn't throw them enough, I say, "I don't have a big ego. I know you've probably dated better guys than me, but I love hanging out with you. Were you thinking we wouldn't be good together?"
After that comment, I usually get them back to the bed about 80% of the time. I was dating this girl named Lisa who wasn't ready for sex with me, but she panicked at the idea that we would only be friends and she really wanted a relationship. It was weird in bed but after about fifteen minutes of different positions and touching her all over during sex, she was convinced she made the right decision. It's a lot like sales, you have to tell them what to do, then reassure them they made the right decision.
Be confident, don't come on too strong. Ask for dates. You really don't want the skanks that fuck on the first date. Don't go buying anything from a pick-up artist to teach you how to date. Just keep asking girls out and trying things. Be positive, take rejection with a smile, and ask if they have friends who might want to date "a loser like me". Trash talking yourself works too. Remember, the goal is to score as often as possible with a wide variety of women.
