1. For sex or a short-term relationship, women want a player. They want a guy who is confident, flatters them, or gets drunk with them. Nice guys can score with women all the time. Just keep dating and keep moving until they give in. It's just a numbers game as far as sex. To increase your chances, be confident, get into conversations and relax around women.
2. For relationships and marriage, women want a jerk. They want someone to order them around and be firm with them. Sex isn't so important. Women want a guy who knows he is in charge and that she is subordinate. Never believe the lies that women want a nice, egalitarian relationship. It doesn't work. I've been in relationships that always had tension or didn't work out because I'm easygoing and it's not important for me to always be in charge. Most women need this. They need a man who shouts and slams doors, rarely does chores and insists on always being in charge, especially when he is wrong about something.
3. If you are a "nice guy", you will have to find a woman who is just as easy-going as you are. If you find a traditional woman, she won't respect you in a relationship. They always want the arrogant and aggressive guys in marriage. That means lots of nice guys can simply use women for short-term relationships then move on.
I know it's a little strange when our educational system tries to pound the masculinity out of boys, drugging them with Ritalin and putting them in behavioral classes. Don't take the wrong lesson from life. Women want any guy with a smile and a drink in their hand for sex. For marriage or a relationship, he has to be a traditional dominating man, or the marriage won't last - or worse, it will be sexless, joyless and empty.
So much better to stay single I'd say.
2. For relationships and marriage, women want a jerk. They want someone to order them around and be firm with them. Sex isn't so important. Women want a guy who knows he is in charge and that she is subordinate. Never believe the lies that women want a nice, egalitarian relationship. It doesn't work. I've been in relationships that always had tension or didn't work out because I'm easygoing and it's not important for me to always be in charge. Most women need this. They need a man who shouts and slams doors, rarely does chores and insists on always being in charge, especially when he is wrong about something.
3. If you are a "nice guy", you will have to find a woman who is just as easy-going as you are. If you find a traditional woman, she won't respect you in a relationship. They always want the arrogant and aggressive guys in marriage. That means lots of nice guys can simply use women for short-term relationships then move on.
I know it's a little strange when our educational system tries to pound the masculinity out of boys, drugging them with Ritalin and putting them in behavioral classes. Don't take the wrong lesson from life. Women want any guy with a smile and a drink in their hand for sex. For marriage or a relationship, he has to be a traditional dominating man, or the marriage won't last - or worse, it will be sexless, joyless and empty.
So much better to stay single I'd say.
